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Nutrition

Feeding my child is very difficult . How can I make mealtimes less of a hassle?

Here are six common childhood eating situations. Try these simple tips to make mealtime a more pleasant experience.

Feeding Challenges. . . Feeding Strategies. . .
Food Jags: Eats one and only one food, meal after meal Allow the child to eat what he or she wants if the "jag" food is wholesome. Offer other foods at each meal. After a few days, the child likely will try other foods. Don't remove the "jag" food, but offer it as long as the child wants it. Food jags rarely last long enough to cause any harm.
Food Strikes: Refuses to eat what's served, which can lead to "short-order cook syndrome" Have bread, rolls or fruit available at each meal, so there are usually choices that the child likes. Be supportive, set limits and don't be afraid to let the child go hungry if he or she won't eat what is served. Which is worse, an occasional missed meal or a parent who is a perpetual short-order cook?
"The TV Habit": Wants to watch TV at mealtime Turn off the television. Mealtime TV is a distraction that prevents family interaction and interferes with a child's eating. Value the time spent together while eating. Often it is the only time during the day that families can be together. An occasional meal with TV that the whole family can enjoy is fine.
The Complainer: Whines or complains about the food served First ask the child to eat other foods offered at the meal. If the child cannot behave properly, have the child go to his or her room or sit quietly away from the table until the meal is finished. Don't let him or her take food along, return for dessert or eat until the next planned meal or snack time.
"The Great American White Food Diet": Eats only white bread, potatoes, macaroni and milk Avoid pressuring the child to eat other foods. Giving more attention to finicky eating habits only reinforces a child's demands to limit foods. Continue to offer a variety of food-group foods. Encourage a taste of red, orange or green foods. Eventually the child will move on to other foods.
Fear of New Foods: Refuses to try new foods Continue to introduce and reinforce new foods over time. It may take many tries before a child is ready to taste a new food. . . and a lot of tastes before a child likes it. Don't force children to try new foods.

 

For the latest information from the US Department of Agriculture about making healthy food choices and keeping physically active, visit their Web site at http://www.mypyramid.gov to learn about MyPyramid.

 

Published online: 4/07
Source: Feeding Kids Right Isn't Always Easy: Tips for Preventing Food Hassles (Copyright © 1991 American Academy of Pediatrics, Updated 1/02)

Healthcare professionals may order this publication in multi-copy packs.
Parents can find more information on this topic in Caring for Your School-Age Child: Ages 5 to 12. To order a copy of this book visit the AAP Bookstore.

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The information contained in this publication should not be used as a substitute for the medical care and advice of your pediatrician. There may be variations in treatment that your pediatrician may recommend based on individual facts and circumstances.





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